How to Talk to Girls – Japanese Style

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Dating is a relationship, which means spending time together. When a boy likes a girl, he asks her out on a date, which gives them an opportunity to get to know each other better. Dating can be casual where a boy or girl goes dating with many persons, or it can be serious, when it turns out to be a long term relationship, ending in marriage. Dating helps people to understand each other. The most important factor to make a girl say ‘yes’ to a date, is the way the girl is approached.


6 mistakes guys make when talking to girls

Many guys make mistakes when asking a girl out, which makes the girls turn down the offer, ending the relationship even before it started. Some mistakes guys make are

# 1 some guys are very nervous, and get a friend to do the asking

# 2 some guys make the mistake of asking a girl in front of her friends or a group

# 3 many guys make the mistake of asking a girl out before knowing her enough. A girl would definitely like to know the guy well before deciding to go out with him. “Trust” is an important factor in a good relationship.

# 4 some guys don’t bother about the way they look

# 5 some guys keep on persisting a girl in spite of her saying ‘no’.

#6 some guys don’t plan properly.


What else should you do?

These are some mistakes that guys make, and if you want to ask a woman on a date the right way, try to avoid making any mistake. So if you are longing for a successful date and relationship, let’s see what you should do?

  • First of all you should try to attract the girl. Unless the girl gets attracted to you, she would not like to go out with you.
  • Avoid asking; instead invite her out for a walk, coffee or ice-cream. Avoid movies or dinner in your first date.
  • Take care of your personal appearance; don’t look shabby and make sure you smell good. Remember girls like their guy to look handsome and attractive.
  • Be well planned, but don’t make it too complicated
  • Don’t be shy and nervous. Be bold and confident when approaching a girl.
  • Make your invitation casual, not desperate. Be humorous. Don’t take it too seriously.
  • Take time to understand the girl, and become very friendly with her, before asking her out. Try to be caring and try to be helpful and supportive whenever she needs.


What about Japanese girls?

Many foreigners love to date Japanese women. One reason for this is that they are very beautiful. They give importance to their culture and women are raised to respect guys and they are very happy to serve him and take care of him. They are also very obedient. They are very attractive and have strong feminine traits. They are simple and are a wonderful choice to be a life partner because Japanese women respect their man. If you are planning to approach a Japanese girl, there are few things you have to keep in mind.

  • Make sure you are aware of Japanese culture.
  • Knowing a bit of Japanese language will be an advantage and show them that you are a good match for them (if you are a foreigner).
  • Japanese women are very choosy, so make sure that she is really interested in going out with you.
  • Be a real gentlemen and pay attention to all her needs.
  • Keep listening to whatever she says, because Japanese women love men to listen to them
  • Japanese girls love going to restaurants. Avoid taking them to a Japanese restaurant, because most of them prefer European dishes.
  • Pay attention to how you look.
  • And finally, if you are serious about the relationship, get her father’s approval, because Japanese women cherish her father’s opinion. So make sure you impress her father too.

Western or Asian, whatever it may be, women are romantic and loved to be approached and believing in yourself and using the right technique will help you to win over a girl easily.

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